Expectations Cannot Be Met All The Time | Why Most Relationships Fail | Part 4


the expectations can never be met all the time they may be met today tomorrow they will not if this was your theory then the relationship will go on the rocks today or tomorrow and why will the expectations not be met because everybody’s chitta vritti is changing authority is temperament our mind is made from the material energy Maya the material energy has three gunas sattva rajas tamas the shui – the thorough condition says a jar may come no hitter Shukla Krishna but we Sri Ramana say Rupa at yahiko – Shah Mardan oshiete aha Tina booked iboga this Maya has three colors white red black in other words there’s sattva-guna Maya rajo-guna Maya Tamang Gauri Maya the mode of goodness the mode of passion the mode of ignorance Lord Krishna has gone into great detail in the month and eat elaborating the three gunas to show to us the nature of the world whichever guna dominates that is how our nature becomes so do these guna has come at a certain time in the day no they can come anytime during the day do they come for a certain interval one hour or two hours no they can come for two minutes they can come for 24 hours considered three wrestlers sometimes the first has dropped the second sometimes the second has dropped the third or the third has dropped the first similarly this battle of the gunas is taking place inside the kind of environment you get the chintan thought processes that you undertake your son scars from past lives they all raised one guna let us say you are sitting and listening to a talk on spirituality now this is a soft weak environment anger greed everything is subsided but then when you are walking out of that little door somebody gives you a push now the guna has changed from insight this guy is so insensitive so callous and supposing he says are you blind can you not see again the guna will change you I pull your tongue out the Mogul mode of ignorance has come the mode of ignorance results in laziness intoxication violence anger the mode of passion results in inflammation of the senses in materialistic ambitions and a spin towards the world the mode of goodness comes to mind and enhances the virtues of kindness compassion and knowledge now are changing all the time you yourself experience that your temperament fluctuates some day you think oh yes I must improve myself what Swami ji talked about growing from within I must passionately move ahead in that the sattva God is creating that inspiration the next day you are thinking I will do it but what is the hurry let me check the IPL scores first of all the Raju gone has dominated some days you say I don’t know is this the age to do it everybody does it in old age why should I do it right now tamo-guna has come just like your gunas are changing everybody else’s gunas are also changing the husband is what are changing the wife’s kunas are changing when will there be a make ability in harmony when the gunas are alike and if there is a conflict in the modes that is where the friction begins